Weddings

The Buddhist Wedding ceremony is a relatively recent development here in America, although the Buddhist Wedding has had a long history in Japan. Since the Meiji period (1868-1912), weddings in Japan have largely been associated with Shinto religious rites. However, in recent years, marriages in large Christian churches have also become common. With the westernizing of Japan, some young couples seem to think that the atmosphere of a Christian church is more aesthetically pleasing, regardless of personal or family religion.

Here in America, the Buddhist marriage ritual is a combination of American and Japanese marriage customs added to a newly created Buddhist ritual. The vows for the ceremony are said to have originated with Shakyamuni Buddha. However, because of the legal nature of our present society, the actual legal marriage takes place with the signing of the marriage certificate. Therefore, the wedding ceremony at the Temple is a presentation of the couple, before Buddha (Truth) and all those present. It is before Truth, family and friends, the couple proclaims their love and commitment towards one another.

The proper Japanese name for this ceremony is Butsuzen Kekkon shiki (Before Buddha binding marriage ceremony). The marriage ceremony consists of chanting, reading of vows and the burning of incense. A number of other customs have also become popular, such as the exchanging of sake, called the san san ku do. For more information, please contact Sensei.

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